Motivating yourself. Learn to laugh. Learn to laugh at yourself. Let your home be ‘heaven’. Do not unload on your wife. Let winning souls be the main thing. Be a giver not a taker. Never give up. Rise early & work late. Create work. Smile a lot. Be friendly. Bounce back. Wait on God by waiting on His people. Look for ways to serve. Be available to God’s people. Love the fire out of your wife & family. Never preach a problem without giving a Bible solution. Learn to say I’m sorry. Love the average Sunday. Be a detail person.