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WHY TRIMMEST THOU THY WAY TO SEEK LOVE?


Jeremiah 2:33, “Why trimmest thou thy way to see love?
therefore hast thou also taught the wicked ones thy ways.”?
It is an easy thing for a child
of God to desire to be liked and loved. No child of God desires conflict. Yet
the truth is there is a built in conflict between the flesh of man and the
Spirit of God. When you trusted Christ as your personal Saviour the Holy Spirit
of God came in to dwell in your body. He is your constant companion. He not
only regenerates you but he teaches, guides, comforts, and even convicts. Why,
because of the battle from the flesh to quench the Holy Spirit!
Here is a pastor who feels
alienated from his people. He has been faithful in the preaching and teaching
of God’s word. He personally loves to be loved. He personally desires to be
accepted by his members. He finds himself at odds with those he has given his
life to serve. He has won them to Christ. He has nurtured them in the Lord and
yet he finds himself under pressure to conform to their ways. “Why trimmest thou
thy way to seek love?”
Here is a lonely college student
who has surrendered to full time service and left home to attend Bible College.
He finds peer pressure did not stay at home, but followed him to college. He
stands for and does right. Yet, he finds those around him for various reasons
are playing college and playing church. He wants to be loved. He wants to be
accepted. He wants to be liked. Thus the pressure to conform exists almost
daily. “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”

Here is a struggling parent with
a rebellious child. The child threatens to leave home if the rules of the house
are not changed. It is very easy for the parent to trim their way to seek love.  “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”
Here is a little gal in high
school and she is not in the “in” crowd, but she is a godly young lady. The
pressure begins to heighten on her. It would be very easy for her to trim her
ways to seek love and acceptance.   “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?” 
Here is a lonely teenage boy. He
does right because he wants to do right, but the pressure begins to mount. The
peer pressure is almost too much to bear. It would be very easy to trim his way
in order to seek love.  “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”
Here is a college young lady who
wants to date, but she is too straight laced they say. It is tough and a very
easy thing for her to trim her way to seek love.  “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”
Here is a young widow. She is
lonely and she faces it day in and day out. The emotional pressure is almost
too much to bear with the empty spot at the dinner table, the bed, and the
sofa. It would be very easy for her to trim her way in order to seek love.  “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”
Here is a young man in college. A
young lady has shown him some attention, but she is always critical and
self-centered as well as selfish. It is very easy for him to trim his way to
seek love.  “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”
Here is a businessman who’s an honest
man and a shady deal is offered to him. It is very easy for him to trim his way
to seek love.  “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”
Whether it is the love of money,
a girl, a boy, a church member, an employee, a son, a daughter, or a boss if
you trim your way to seek love you will regret it one day.  “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”
By the way you are in some good
company! Paul did take a Jewish vow looking for confirmation and love.  Peter went fishing naked looking for
acceptance. Peter cursed and denied his Lord, his faith, and his church looking
for love. Barnabas fussed with Paul and chose his nephew over God’s will for he
was looking for love. Solomon did the same thing in taking many wives when God
said one wife for one lifetime in Deuteronomy 17:17, for he was seeking love.
Demas did the same thing by trimming his way in order to seek the love of the
world. John Mark did the same thing by turning back trimming his way in order
to seek love. King David trimmed his way when he stayed home from leading his
army into battle in search of love.  “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”
Here is a struggling youth pastor
taking a stand for right. A child complains to his parent. The parent becomes
upset with the youth pastor. Pressure is put on the youth pastor and it would
be an easy thing for the youth pastor to trim his way to seek love.  “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”
Here is a choir director giving
his all to proper music and the pressure to liberalize his music standard comes
against him. It would be very easy for him to trim his way to seek love.  “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”
A local church takes a strong
fundamental stand for soul winning, standards, bus ministry, being independent,
pastoral leadership, and a preserved inspired King James Bible. The pressure comes from
family members and other churches. It would be very easy for them to trim their
way to seek love. “Why trimmest thou thy way to see love?”

God asks the question, “Why
trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”
It is possible this chapter was Jeremiah’s
first sermon after his ordination. The scope of his sermon was to show God’s
people their errors. God’s people were charged with the sin of idolatry. God’s
people had broken their covenants and had degenerated from their good
beginnings. 

Jeremiah let them know that they were without precedent in changing
loves. He let God’s people know they had willfully and obstinately changed
their lifestyle, which in the end their idols would be unable to help them.  “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”
The same is true today for
whomever or whatever you have traded for your God, for this will not help you
in the end. “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”
Here is an allusion to someone
who becomes a lewd woman: a painted up face, a fancy hairdo, a mini skirt, and
an attire of a harlot. Here is sinful courting and God asks “Why?” God pleads
with them and asks in verse 31, “Have I been a wilderness unto Israel?” and
“Have I given you a land of darkness” and “Why do you reject me” and say, “We
are lords we will come no more unto thee?”
Jeremiah 2:32, “Can a maid forget her ornaments, or a bride
her attire? Yet my people have forgotten me days without number.”
In verse 33 God said you have
encouraged the wicked by trimming your way to seek love. God says to them the
blood of the innocent will be on your hands for trimming your way to seek love.
God says in verse 35 to them just because you think it is ok does not make it
ok! In verse 36 God tells them they will become gadabouts. Why, because they
trimmed their way to seek love. In verse 37 God continues by saying to His
people you will not prosper and all because you trimmed your way to seek love.  “Why trimmest thou thy way to seek love?”
For some strange reason we think
that if we trim our way that the world will love us! Not true! They will use us
and despise us in order to get out of us what they want! “Why trimmest thou thy
way to seek love?”

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